Parenting – The Indian Way

Do you wonder if your parents behave abnormal?, Don’t worry, You are not alone.

Responsibility or Abnormality:

They fell loose and threatened when it comes to their kid’s future. Of-course, This is a big responsibility, Isn’t it? But this responsibility, twisted by the future’s uncertainty, catalyzed by social fraternity, in due course, transformed into a state of absolute frustration. This is the moment, the problem begins. This frustration ends up in setting a few pretty hard targets for their kids – “Ranks and Marks”.  Indian Parents strongly believe, these targets would seal and secure the kid’s future. Sadly, these targets are revised quite frequently than Indian fuel prices which dismay their kid like Ganguly facing the Brutal Akhtar.

Building Healthier Bonds – Love and Respect

Indian Kids scream in pressure, looking for escape, even a top end rice cooker would have given up. A friend of mine had the same issue. He was doing average with his studies, which was not enough for his father. Combined studies, Focus on easy to score areas., Nothing worked out. Though he had some exceptional artistic skills, For his Dad, Engineering or Doctor are the only Professions worth taking up.

We felt pity and tried to help him. Told him about Bill Gates and his success against the fact that he was a High School drop out. Just asked him to talk to his Dad about such exceptional beings who were neither Engineers nor Doctors.

The Passive Aggressive Battlefield

He came next day with jaws drooped and enacted what happened.

I was really concerned to hear that. What..? My god, Does that really matters ..? Well, I thought, we had to sort this out even better. We got a few good Local examples from Internet. Sort of regained our confidence and the sense of making his Dad clueless was exhilarating.

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